Gratitude - The Lord wants you to be thankful in all things, it is part of how we speak to God, in prayer.
We can express gratitude in the way we live it will make you notice good things in your life.
Friendship your memories will be sweeter.
If you choose good friends they can help your health, and help you accomlish the things you want to do.
To make friends you need to be a good friend.
Story of the parable of the ten lepers. Told the story of the 9 who experience miracles but they do not give thanks.
Count your blessings for your trials, they could be do much worse, you might be blessed greatly and you simply do not recognize them like those 9 other lepers that are recorded in the Bible.
Told story of the Christmas story.
You may not be aware of the blessing that your expressed gratitude may be for another.
Signs that these are the latter days may seem scary.
Being grateful makes sinking spirits rise, and poem was shared that was optimistic.
Charity - story of a woman who felt like it was a burden and she did not want to be nagative, then the person striked up a conversation and only did the other woman talk about how charitable and kind she had been, it was unbeliable because it was not seen as charitable at all.
When we saw someone instantly it was a reflex to care for another person... story of how Melaine saved a life of a man in McDonald's.
Story of Good Samaritan would have been just as a marvelous story if it had been a fellow jew, but as it is, it shows how we help another regardless.
Charity will never be accompanied by the thought that the other deserves what they got or not.
Think of your life as being like that journey on the road to Jericho/Damascas.
Ask yourself, "where is my neighbor?" never answer that he was left behind.
It is like being your brother's keeper.
President Monson asked for his birthday that we do a nice thing for others.
FHE Charity lesson ideas...
Lesson of someone I saw what they handled it was an opportunity to say no and she did not handle it in an inproper way.
There was a time Pres. Gilland thanked me so much for giving up a seat so another family could sit there. I really did not even think anything of it, but I paid it closer attention because he expressed gratitude.
Adam Sandler stood up for "Mormons" as being kind.
RS Then Jesus beholding him, loved him. By Elder Palmer
Beholding and he knew exactly what the guy needed to learn.. really take it in.
Story of people taking in a painting everyday for a whole term.
When you don't know someone the savior does know them, everyone.
Western people talk to each other just in the grocery story where as out East no one talks and if you speak people think you want something. Which is what I had big trouble with people always saying "how are you?" But clearly there isn't enough time to answer that.
You want to be able to help but not enable.
Unless out of love nothing should be said.
This is exactly the problem that I saw on a comment back and forth and how the facts become irrelevant.
We should not forget that ultimately we deeply love those around us.
Expectations of others ought to,be based on how you know them.
I feel terrible because I thought my house was representative of me, and it would be seen as messy, and it troubled me soooo much, but the whole class of Relief Society sisters agreed that they would not ever notice that, and if they did they would want to help not judge.