Blonde moment here!
I just realized the big trouble in my life by trying to solve someone else's.
It took distancing myself to allow myself to be critical of such a problem. The problem with second chances is that you have to conclude that your first choice was wrong, that is hard to do, but unless I am honest with myself, even if I'm critical of other problems much less dear to me, I avoid admitting that My first choice was the trouble, I prefer to blame others for the terrible situation I am in. The second you admit that you care it is too late, but if you want it not to be too late for real, not joking, it requires being willing to openly admit that your choice was wrong, if that isn't a problem for most, then, that will not suprise me, but it is hard for me.
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